I feel closest to Geofon, but I think it might have something to do with my nature being closer to hers than any other deity. Others come and go at different times - lately Neorth, Thunor and Frige have been very important to me. I connect with Freo quite a lot too, but for me she's very closely connected with Geofon, so they come almost as a pair.
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Not quite patrons but right now I relate most to Wodan (wanderer seeking for wisdom) and Donar (the big picture can go entertain itself for a while, lets deal with what's right in front of us!)
Im sure it will change as I mature in life and in Lore
''Young and alone on a long road,
Once I lost my way:
Rich I felt when I found another;
Man rejoices in man''
~Wodan
I can't say I truly have a patron god as such, I do sort of trend towards Odin, Freya and Thor though. These three provide my balance between wisdom (Odin), courage (Thor) and life/rebirth (Freya).
Freyja was the one who called me to heathery to start with. Before I understood she was a goddess, I liked her image and personality and she was my role model so to speak. She is the one I feel most connected too.
"I give my word to the Divine, the community, and myself, that to the best of my ability I shall take into my hands the threads of Frith I have been blessed with and weave them with diligence and care throughout the lives of all that I touch."
I'm probably too inexperienced in Heathenry just yet to decide upon a patron God. As a martial artist, writer and general "wisdom-seeker", I'd like to think Odin would be my patron God, although I'm far from that decision just yet.
I've done various forms of Kung Fu like Northern Shaolin, several different Animal Styles, Kenpo, Western Boxing, Krav Maga. Northern Shaolin was my most "formal" style, as I was taught by a master. But, I have family members who have trained in martial arts and I learned most from them